I have been working as a psychotherapist for 16 years. I specialize in psychotherapy and relationship coaching for men. The idea of mental health can be scary for some people. My philosophy is that mental health, in it's simplest form, is about getting back to being happy and comfortable in your life. I have experience with all that general stuff all psychotherapists deal with, so let's move on to what you're really here for. 

I work with men who want to:

  • rebuild their confidence and re-establish a feeling of success in their life
  • confronting and overcoming fears
  • reclaim their life after a break up or divorce
  • connect with their best selves to build attraction and establish the kind of relationship that nurtures and supports their best self
  • nourish intimacy to maintain a healthy, loving relationship
  • maintain your sense of being a man in your relationship and in a changing world

If you are sick of playing it safe and being the nice guy only to get walked all over, I can help. If you have a pattern of being in relationships where you feel unsatisifed or your needs are not being met, I can help. If you are having trouble figuring out the slippery slope of the dating world and how to navigate it, I can help. If dating has been nothing short of anxiety provoking and an unpleasurable experience for you, together we can change that. 



It wasn’t long ago that I was chronically without a date or girlfriend on a Friday and Saturday night. If I wasn’t hanging out alone in my room, I was with friends who also did not have the first clue about how to talk to women that showed romantic intent. For a long time I was left feeling like Loser Larry.

I did not realize how much my mind set was getting in my own way! Even when great women were interested in me and showed it, this feeling about myself was so predominant I disqualified myself before the women even had the chance to. I could not for the life of me see the obvious ways I was getting in my own way and sabotaging opportunities that were right in front of my face. I was overcomplicating a very simple process and sabotaging

I used to think that going out of my way to give a woman everything she wants. I gave up my power, would become self-sacrificing, and try to be who I thought she wanted rather than being comfortable and confident with who I was. Once I saw what I was doing it helped me to get on the right track, get dates, and find an amazing woman who I have a vibrant relationship with.

  • What men write that leads to instant rejection
  • Get a sneak peak into the private thoughts and messages of the men writing the messages and the women receiving the messages.
  • Understand what you’re doing that is disqualifying yourself from the women who are actually interested in you.

The first step to knowing what to do is knowing what NOT to do. Take your first step to getting dates and now marrying a great woman

Dude, I know you’re in pain. How long is it going to take before you do something about it? You’re not getting any younger, they not getting any prettier. Get out there before it’s too late.

Sign up now to take to to get your complimentary guide, including messages real women shared with me sent by men that instantly turned them off.  on the surprisingly common blunders men make that get in the way of establishing the connections and relationships they want.
I remember wishing that someone who had already done this would just show me what to write and what NOT to write.

Other benefits include:
  • Messages that lead women to see you as a friend rather than a man that triggers attraction
  • How men attract women who are bad matches for them rather than finding a partner that they feel happy with

Take the first step becoming an Ethical Stud, and put your dating life and relationships in order!